“What Is The Best Way To Fit In?”
By trying to be normal? Being just like everyone else and adjusting who you are for the situation so that you are just like everyone else. If this is the option you have chosen then I guess you could make that work for you but it isn’t the easiest way to fit in social groupings; this because constantly having to adjust who you are to fit the setting is a lot of unnecessary hard work and worse still is that you lose your identity and individuality.
NOTE: A little change is necessary depending on the social grouping but all in all you shouldn’t change your personality or alter your beliefs or morals for the sake of fitting in.
So “What Is The Best Way To Fit In?” Well if you are asking yourself this question then your are focusing on the wrong thing. Your goal here is to attract the positive attention of gurls (well, I guess, of your peers as well).
Therefore the question that you need to be addressing is: “What Is The Best Way To Attract Positive Attention To Myself?” And the answer is by being different.
Let me explain. If you focus on the fact that your goal is to attract the positive attention of the gurls then you’ll begin to realize just why you want to stand out from the crowd. The only similarities that you want to create are between you and a gurl you are attracted to. Not between you and everyone else otherwise she might as well be talking to the next average Joe in the crowd.
So the simple truth is that alpha males are individuals; they are individuals among group and because of that they stand out and attract attention from the fairer sex. No one is saying that you have to make a spectacle of yourself just to get attention as you will appear desperate for attention or maybe even like the clown of the crowd. All being different means is that you are daring enough to be your confident, charming self, nothing more nothing less.
An old adage says, “You Are Unique, Just Like Everyone Else.” But this isn’t true when it comes to social interactions because most guys fear that appearing different from the crowd is a social taboo and thus become content with being social sheep as they lose their individuality so as to try and fit in. And once you lose your individuality, you reduce the old adage to “You Are Just Like Everyone Else.”
Now I’m sure you have seen these people who are just part of the crowd, always trying hard to fit in with the popular crowd, accepting whatever the group finds popular at that time, never seeming to have a stance on anything and never standing out positively. How much easier would it be to simply relax and be natural? To live your life in an unwavering manner, standing by whatever morals and believes you life your life by and thus being truly proud of who you are?
So why don’t most guyz do this? Simply because they lack confidence and fear rejection.
Here is a shocking revelation, not every gurl is going to like you. It would incredibly pompous to think they will and sooner or later you will come face to face with rejection in one form or another. And it’s not because you aren’t a fun person to know it could simply be because your likes and interests & morals and beliefs could be very different to the ones she has.
So you decide for yourself whether you would rather save time and figure out if you are going to click with a gurl from the very start or go ahead and waste your time by trying to attract her attention by being just like everyone else.
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