Here are some helpful Christian premarital counseling questions to consider before deciding to marry.
1. How well do you understand the fictions and facts about love?
2. How eager are you “just to get married?”
3. Is your current situation unhappy? Are you marrying just to “get away from it all?”
4. Were you ever engaged before? Have you suffered any bitterness or humiliation?
5. Is anyone putting pressure on you to marry?
6. How well do you know each other?
7. How strong are your interests in common?
11. How similar are your ideals, values, and goals in life?
12. How important is financial success?
13. Is either of you a social climber?
14. Have you discussed having children in detail so that you understand each other?