If you are trying to get win back your wife or looking for how to get your ex back fast, you must stop accusing them. You will stand a better chance of winning them back by staying placid and composed.
In the same anger and inflexibility may not be the best approach, going on an all-out affection charge may also not yield what you desire. This can come over as patronising as your ex may feel you are only doing this to win them over.
“Be yourself” is advice given in many situations.However, identifying the qualities your ex liked about you at the start of your relationship may help you to pinpoint what has gone wrong since then to cause the break up.